Don't Hate Valentine's Day

I don’t hate Valentine’s Day.

Granted, I spend the majority of my Valentine’s Days alone.  Not necessarily single, but by myself.  I usually spend the weekend before V-Day with my girlfriends wine tasting and doing other Galentine’s Day activities.  It’s a blast.  For the past few years, I’ve spent the day of eating take-out and watching horror movies.  It’s awesome.

A lot of guys hate the concept of Valentine’s Day.  Great.  Hate it if you must.  But it doesn’t have to be about dropping a bunch of cash on a romantic evening.  I’m not opposed to eating take-out and watching movies with a dude.  I just don’t want to do it if the guy’s gonna have an attitude.

This year, I made homemade gummy candy for Jessica.  I bought her some books about friendship and female leadership, along with a craft kit to make Valentine’s Day cards.  We’re getting together on Thursday to exchange gifts and read each others’ short stories.  It’s going to be nice and low-key.

Last year, Eddie and I were dating on Valentine’s Day.  He texted me that day for the sole purpose of telling me how much he hated the holiday.  I told him that I was having take-out and watching horror movies by myself.  He asked if he could join me.  I told him no, and turned my ringer off for the rest of the evening so that I could enjoy it in peace.  

I hope that you all have a nice day tomorrow doing whatever you so desire.  See you guys in the morning.